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The Art of Politely Telling
Understanding how the art of politely telling others can significantly enhance your leadership skills.
One of the skills I teach new managers is using Polite Directing when giving work assignments. Many new managers ask their team members- Will you do me a favor and take care of this task? Asking gives the mistaken impression there is a choice to comply or not. Politely Directing supercharges leadership messaging and eliminates confusing directions. The Art of Politely Telling is essential for clear communication.
WRONG Asking Will you do this for me?
RIGHT
What I need you to please do is ___________, Thank you This phrase highlights The Art of Politely Telling.
The difference seems small, but delivers an IMMENSE improvement. As the leader, I did not need permission to assign reasonable tasks while I did need to treat my team with respect and dignity. Politely directing finds the common ground between courtesy and direction. Without the polite please and thank you, the directing statement alone is harsh.
The key phrase that signals you are giving a direction is What I need you to please do is ________, Thank you. This method is integral to The Art of Politely Telling.
Other phrases like I would like you to please… or It’s time for you to please… are also effective.
Learning the art of politely directing is a light switch moment for new managers. Transitioning to directing from asking, empowers leaders while their team realizes,: this person is leading me with The Art of Politely Telling.
What Great Leaders Know
The Art of Politely Telling.
Directing is not asking if the employee wants to
Politely Telling is an effective method of assigning tasks
The key phrase in Politely Telling is I need you to please
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https://whatgreatleadersknow.com
https://www.businessnewsdaily.com/9186-leadership-language.html
Helping Others Succeed: A Winning Strategy
Developing a winning team is more effective when focusing on helping others succeed: a winning strategy.
When it comes to helping others succeed and generating wins, my friend George Johnson comes to mind. George is a capital G, Great Leader and one of my business heroes. During the time I worked for George he always put my career development first. He assisted me in accomplishing my goals by giving me opportunities to contribute in key situations. He trusted me and always valued my opinion even when it differed. George understood, as exceptional leaders do, that when he helped me succeed, the team won.
Outstanding leaders construct a team of talented, team focused, collaborators. They understand while there is something to be gained from healthy competition, there is more to be gained from working together. One of George’s keys to performance is put points on the board which got me thinking about one of my sports heroes, Wayne Gretzky. The Great One left a measurable legacy of what it means to lead by collaboration. Helping others succeed helps the team win. A lesson from the hockey rink that applies to the workplace, where helping others succeed helps the team win.
Career NHL Goal Scoring Leaders
NHL Hall of Famer Wayne Gretzky, has held the NHL All Time Goal Scoring Record since he retired in 1999 with 894 goals. Washington Capitals Super Star Alex Ovechkin has scored 872 goals and is a good bet to break Gretzky’s record before he retires. Since hockey teams cannot win when they don’t score, nothing is more important than goal scoring. Gretzky played in 1487 games and Ovechkin 1450, their goals per game average is very similar. Helping others succeed, Gretzky enabled his team to win.
What sets Gretzky apart is what he did for other players
Career NHL Assists Leaders
Hall of Famer Ron Francis ranks second in career assists (setting up another player who scores a goal) with an amazing 1,249! Alex Ovechkin ranks 57th with 708 career assists, also an impressive total.
Gretzky assisted another player in scoring a staggering 1,936 times! Nearly 700 more than Francis in about 300 fewer games. Even though he scored the most goals ever, Gretzky helped others score twice as often! This is a prime example of how helping others succeed helps the team win.
Career NHL Points Leader (Goals + Assists)
Nor surprisingly, Wayne Gretzky ranks first in Career Points, either scoring a goal or assisting someone else who scored 2,857 times! Helping others succeed: the winning strategy for team success. Hall of Famer Jaromir Jagr ranks second with 1,921 points, while Alex Ovechkin ranks 12th with 1,580. Even if he never scored a goal in his career, Wayne Gretzky would still be the NHL career points leader!
Gretzky’s teams won 4 Stanley Cup Championships while Ovechkin’s teams won 1.
While Ovechkin will likely end his career as the all time goals leader, Gretzky helped his teammates score 63% more goals than Ovechkin. Helping others succeed: the winning strategy for team success. Most of the time, Gretzky was helping his teammates score. Most of the time, Ovechkin’s teammates were helping him score. That does not mean Alex Ovechkin is not an all time great hockey player. It does not mean he was a selfish player. He was simply better at scoring than helping others score. Wayne Gretzky’s ability to help his teammates succeed resulted in more wins, more championships.
Winning With Your Work Team
Great Leaders who help their team mates succeed, win more often, like George, like Gretzky. In business that means prioritizing your team members career development. Helping others succeed: the winning strategy for team success. Assisting them in accomplishing their goals and giving them opportunities to contribute in key situations. Helping others succeed, in turn, helps the team win.
George understood, as exceptional leaders do, that when he helped me succeed, the team won.
Great Leaders Know
The most successful leaders make everyone around them better
Give more than you take
Outstanding leaders construct a team of talented, team focused, collaborators
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